Friday, March 16, 2012

As a mom of boys this is frightening

I am a part of several parenting forums toddlers, pregnancy and infancy boards. I recently read a post that a little girl at 5 years old was "touched" by another boy in her class. In her privates. Now I don't have daughters so I can't comment on how I would feel if it was my baby girl feeling like a victim. I can only speak for the side that I understand. The fear I would feel as a parent if my son was accused of being a sexual predator at 5 years old. Fucking scary. Especially since I can see Carson is going to think smacking butts is funny.

What if this was one of my babies? Being accused of sexual deviancy? Also seeing how this mother also accused the boys parents of sexually abusing him. I've never claimed to be an expert on kids, I'm not. But doesn't this fall into the "normal" behavior of a non sexually abused child?

Its scary as fuck to think that in 3 years some over reactive bitch could accuse my child of being a pervert. I'm scared for their futures where this is something we have to worry about, and you bet your ass we will be teaching them to NEVER touch below the waist and not to allow other to touch them below the waist either.


I've never looked at the other side, I've always worried what if a creep touches them. Not, what if they don't think about the boundary and it ruins their life at the age of 5. Cause lets face it, 5 year olds can be really stupid and impulsive.

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